Thursday, May 20, 2010

我想要说

谢谢你们的支持
Xuan
Orange

虽然我不确定和他是不是能走到最后
可是我们的友谊是不变的

Joanne
虽然你不支持我们在一起
可是我还是做了一些令你失望的事

你整天说他是我的幸福
那么我嫁给一个我已经不爱的男人
我真的会幸福吗?
你整天说我如果真的很狠心的分手
那对他会很不公平
那么你觉得我一直拖累着他
到最后他才发现我对他已经没有爱的感觉
到了适婚的年纪才发现他浪费了所有的光阴
在一个不爱他的女人身上
会公平吗??

可是我知道你很关心我
你会这么衝动是因为你很保护我这个妹妹
所以我没有怪你
或许我没有这个资格怪你

可是你永远都是最爱我
最疼我
也是我最爱
我最疼的姐姐

我并不是放弃
这些只是我的选择

Wallace Sum
我不奢望你的幸福
只要你好好爱我
我也会很尽心尽力的去爱你

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

Is human life just a dream , from which we never really awake , as some great thinkers claim ?
Are we submerged by our feelings , by our loves and hates , by our ideas of good , bad , beautiful , awful ?
Are we incapable of knowing beyond those ideas and feelings ?


Is the reality we know a reality imposed to us by nature ?
Is the reality and the meaning of life a creation of men , such as music , or love or colors ( science tells us that there isn't such things as music , harmony or colors in the physic world . Just traveling molecules : « There is not , external to us , hot or cold , but only different velocities of molecules ; there aren’t sounds , callings , harmonies , but just variations in the pressure of the air ; there aren’t colours , or light , just electro-magnetic waves » , said H. Von Foerster . ) .

There is the cruelty of life , the pain , the evil , not to talk of death .
They are the hidden tigers , ambushed and ready to attack the imprudent , to use an image present in the Buddhist Scriptures .
Is between these pendulums - the positive , the one that gives happiness and meaning , and the negative - that our lives are lived .
And when we meditate about all that , we arrive at a diverse and disagreeing set of thoughts about the meaning and purpose of life .


Love gives meaning to our lives – as do friendship , or art or faith in God .


These are factors of true happiness , of inner peace , of feelings of harmony , allowing meaning to our existence .


What is the purpose of life ?
I believe that the purpose of life is to be happy